Become the man she can trust again

We help Jesus followers struggling with porn create a recovery plan, recruit an effective team, and practice new tools to rebuild their life, leadership, and relationships.

We help you move from

Pain to Purpose

Convert the pain that drives your unwanted sexual behaviors into a constructive purpose.

Chaos to Calling

Partner with God and others to transform relational chaos into a personal calling.

Brokenness to Wholeness

Leverage the momentum of your sexual brokenness towards the wholeness you’ve had all along.

Have you found yourself thinking?

I’ll figure it out myself.

Why can’t I stop?

If she really knew. She’d leave.

Is it that big of a deal?

Is God ever going to heal me?

Everybody needs help. You are not alone.

I nearly destroyed my marriage, ministry, and family right out the gate. I was stuck with my destructive sexual choices and needed help. For the last decade my wife, Brittany, and I have pursued recovery. With long-term sobriety, we’ve walked with dozens of men and couples towards sexual wholeness. I’m a certified Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional (PSAP) and have my MA in Theology and Ministry. Brittany partners with me to walk alongside and care for betrayed women. She’s a certified Professional Life Coach, Mental Health Coach, and has her MBA in Entrepreneurship.

Anthony Gonzalez
Co-Founder of Wholeness Help

  • “Anthony Gonzalez offers a unique set of clinically trained, personal experience, hospitality and pastoral care to make your sexual wholeness journey one of a kind. Anthony has both the art and science of helping guys get free when it comes to sexual wholeness.”

    Taylor, Ministry Leader, Colorado

  • “Anthony introduces hope to people struggling with sexual addiction because he has gone ahead, done the work, fought the battles, and emerged victorious in the war against sexual brokenness. I would know, I owe my transformation to his guidance in this area of my life.”

    Jacob, Business Owner, Florida

  • "Anthony, I am so grateful for you in my life! Your friendship, leadership, wisdom, and example are such huge blessings that I am eternally grateful for."

    Zach, Doctor, MN

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